So many of my blog readers have asked for my help to overcome the painful impact of embarrassment.
It has happened over and over and probably will continue to happen; life seems to need to include those experiences as some …
So many of my blog readers have asked for my help to overcome the painful impact of embarrassment.
It has happened over and over and probably will continue to happen; life seems to need to include those experiences as some …
Q. I attended your dream workshop. I am very sure that people will want to hear just how very important your dreams really are.–Donna Lopatka
DR. KISSEL RESPONDS: It is hard for some people to accept that their …
Do cell phones cause cancer?
The fact that we are all exposed to EMF radiation from the devices we use has caused deep concern for many consumers and researchers alike. Some people still doubt the dangers. However the facts have …
October 12, 2015
The old saying that the mind is willing but the flesh is weak is one I’ve heard said many times, haven’t you? We have also heard it said that the spirit is willing but the mind is
September 3, 2015
Look before you leap, and/or delete
Are you inundated with emails? I get at least 100 emails a day, many from my clients, past and present; those are to be responded to ASAP of course. And I
How to find balance in a topsy-turvy world.
Plus when a life hangs in the balance…..?
I often wonder when we speak of finding balance in our lives what that actually means to us as individuals. Obviously
Because I am again working with several clients in grief and the subject has come up a lot lately, as anniversaries birthdays etc tend to bring with them a renewed sense of loss, and sadness, I thought
A Matter of Life and Death:
Flossie’s story.
One of my clients, a cancer patient said to me, “I now believe God has given me the power through my own mind to heal myself.” A few weeks
In today’s world distractions are more prolific than ever. Many people tell me that they go on their computer to do one thing and end up being diverted from their purpose by incoming mail that looks interesting,
The old saying that creativity is one percent inspiration and 99 percent perspiration is true, as any writer or artist knows from experience. Not that it’s always an effort. At times, as a writer, I’ve experienced how
Everyone knows that stress is not just miserable to deal with; there are many miseries as a result of it. There are so many different kinds of stress and so many serious health problems resulting from
On Sunday April 6th my husband Don and I had dinner with the wolves. Yes, that’s right. An experience that words alone cannot describe, although I’ll do my best as I’d like to share with you
Success is at hand.
Okay, so all the holiday hullabaloo is quieted down, and the New Year has begun, ideally well for you. So now let’s get down to the business of every day life as usual.
I wish you and yours fulfillment of all of your hopes and dreams, safe travels, good health and prosperity, not just during the holiday season, always. Yet I know all too well that if wishing would make
The blog Have you had an embarrassing moment attracts more readers than any other since I began blogging. So I’m reprinting it herein in case you didn’t read it before or would like to read it again.
October 21, 2013
In the last week’s sessions with clients the issue of vulnerability came up came up a lot. Some would call it coincidence. Carl Jung called it Synchronicity. I’ve experienced it often in my every day life, as
Survival tactics.
In the next few blogs I’m going to give you some simple yet effective survival tactics.
Two in this one. With details that will can save your life!
Some of the most common problems that
We are all created equal according to the American constitution and in the eyes of the law; supposedly, anyway. It’s believed that we are equals in the eyes of the creator also. However, in the eyes of
Please note important addendum to this post *
Have you ever heard the expression, “You can’t see for looking?” I have, and so have many people I know who’ve complained about this strange phenomenon. How many times
Survival tactics: number three
A million dollar method:
It is one of the links in the chain of command I teach my Mind Mastery students. I’m giving away free because it truly is a life saver.
Always
Worry and how to eliminate it.
Do you worry? Most people I meet in my practice report worries of various kinds, including health, relationships, family issues, money, job/work insecurities, and much more. Sometimes the daily worries,
“I told you so!”
Do you squirm inside with annoyance, even feel angry when someone says that to you? Probably more so when it’s said with a self-righteous attitude or there’s a tone of ridicule in the
Do you realize that subliminal suggestion is adding to your stress and influencing your choices?
I won’t reiterate what I wrote last year on the subject of how to cope with the holiday stresses, although it’s still
“Human versus Humane”
I often wonder what the reason is we use the word “humane’ to describe respectful decent caring and kind treatment of animals and humans. After all, all too few humans demonstrate those kind and
Human…humane?
Part one: A close encounter with an elephant. An example of human nature versus nature.
A few weeks ago my husband said he had a surprise for me.
I’d just finished reading “The Elephant Whisperer
I’m on the air again.
Getting the word out is easy in today’s media rich world. In fact, we are inundated through the airways and cable with information, some important and relative to our lives and
Of course we learn from experience, more often our own than that of our elders and society’s wise and well-known; even though the advice and guidance is given in plenty and our observations of choice and consequence
Just the other day one of my clients made a deprecating remark about an obese individual, it was critical, judgmental, and most unkind. I asked him, who also happens to be considerably over weight, if that’s how
Are you a truth seeker? I’ve been one as long as I can remember. However, this blog isn’t about what is true and what’s not true. It’s about the word truth and how it gets used and
The blog Have you had an embarrassing moment attracts more readers than any other since I began blogging. So I’m reprinting it herein in case you didn’t read it before or would like to read it again.
This time of year many spiritually oriented stories are told, in churches, synagogues, and while people sit in front of their fireplaces or around the Christmas tree or Hanukkah candles, in family gatherings, and traditional celebrations and
Peace on earth and goodwill to all…a phrase heard more often this time of year. I hope wish and pray for it, don’t you?
And, I’d like to add … please, some quiet too. No question we
I keep hearing the phrase, “it is what it is,” spoken by so many people. Its become a popular idiom.
It seems that in making a statement of fact about what is going on within them and
911…The ever aftermath.
How did you feel while you viewed the 911 ceremonies? I’m sure you felt the loss, the deep and immeasurable sadness as I did. I could not watch for long; it was just too
If you enjoy taking pictures you know the power photographs have to take you back to those special moments that would otherwise be lost amid the trillions of memories stored in your mind and brain.
The camera
Before reading on,, complete the
following sentences.
Friends are
A good friend is
I expect my friends’ to
The most important attribute of a friend is
Friends are important to
Having had many emails from people concerned
My husband Don often gives me ideas for my blog; since he has been reflecting a great deal lately on the concept of family he asked If I’d write
my thoughts on the subject. I agreed to
Fear is one of nature’s gifts to aid us in our survival. Without the ability to experience it we would be easy prey to all predatory beings, including some of our fellow humans. In so-called lower animals
Seldom does a therapy day pass without my needing to help my clients work through and heal from anger and pain about things that have happened to them so that they could move on without the heavy
Breath is life…
The moment you are born you need to fill your lungs with air, if you don’t, you get a smack on the bottom to get you to cry which causes you suck in the
Are your conscious and subconscious mind in tune? I’m not on a soap box here… or am I?
There are so many mixed messages given from just about every conceivable source it’s hard to make sense of
Death is, as we all know the inevitable at some point, and we usually accept it, albeit reluctantly, at the end of a long life, and hopefully it comes without suffering and fear. However it also comes
After almost 70 years of being an avid reader, not only of fiction, and what was required during all levels of my education and my independent studies, over the years a few have impinged themselves on my
Danger!… trying to please and make everyone happy!
Denise* sat in my therapy room weeping. She was suffering the painful consequences of attempting to be everywhere and do everything she thought people expected of her. All the
This blog may be somewhat longer than usual, however, it is worth your while to take it all in, that is if you want to be happy in 2011 and always.
I know that you have
Even my heart felt “thank you” doesn’t feel enough at times for me to express gratitude, and I don’t mean just for holiday season gifts, I mean for those that come to me through the hard work,
Wishing…
I wish, geez… how often do I hear that phrase? I hear myself think it often and I even hope and pray as well for peace on earth, good will among all people of every race
News year’s resolutions – making positive changes.
This is not just a seasonal subject. All year-long people think about shedding that extra weight, and like those who smoke or have other negative or self limiting habits plan
I have a client who writes a great deal of poetry, and has shared many of his cute and sometimes profound creations with me. He has reminded me, with his excellent ability to rhyme that poetry
Several people have come to me to deal with the holiday blues and stresses. It’s obvious that some people need to have their common sense refreshed. Others have asked me why I haven’t blogged about this, and asked me to …
Reality check!
In today’s world of Photo-shopped and computer generated images and animations that imitate life with incredible realism, how do we know what is real?
Technological advances in the field of filmmaking are challenging our ability in many instances …
You, like many people may have many un-articulated needs that get expressed through nervousness, irritability, impatience and intolerance…depression as well as anxiety…or a longing for something, yet not knowing exactly what it is. That’s’ just one of the reasons I …
Embarrassment is one of the most stressful of human experiences, and seems to be hard for people to get over. People slip and fall, stumble on words, forget names and faces, dates and places… make typos and misspell things, make …
Music and mind .
When you listen to music, what’s going on in your mind? Are you focused on the music and nothing else? Or does your mind flood with recognizable associations with it… or do thoughts come at random …
Before I go into the subject of the heading … my last blog challenged you to come up with a list of things that humans have invented that have no potential for deliberate harm as well as
My husband Don and I were talking one morning this week about the frustrations that technology brings with it along with its wonderful benefits. I had been telling him how my sister Carolyn in England had to
Before I go into the subject of the heading … my last blog challenged you to come up with a list of things that humans have invented that have no potential for deliberate harm as well as good. Thanks for …
My husband Don and I were talking one morning this week about the frustrations that technology brings with it along with its wonderful benefits. I had been telling him how my sister Carolyn in England had to use the computer …
…. anyone can get them.
Have you ever, when writing something down questioned the spelling of a word you have spelled correctly so many times before? Have you noticed that once you question something that way no matter how you …
Have you ever thought about the role size plays when it comes to the power, significance and/or importance, or even the value of… well, anything? I am referring here to objects, not the measurements of people. Although big doesn’t always …
The subject is survival…..
I have always been in awe of the ability of human beings to withstand diabolical pain and suffering, to elude death and come through their challenges whole and healthy. As one who has helped many go …
The imposter syndrome
He sat facing me, rubbing his hands together, a deep frown on his face, his voice shaky as his words came out in staggered sentences.“It’s getting almost impossible to show up at work… or stay with it …
Robert Burns, the poet said, “Oh the gift that God would give us to see ourselves as others see us.”
I recall my mother imitating his brogue while quoting the great Scotsman, and then saying,
“And God help us if …
Mind boggling momentous occasions
Would you agree that almost every day of our lives holds within it moments to hold dear in our memories, and every month of the year brings with it certain dates that have special meanings for …
The truth about the laws of attraction.
We are told by many authors and spiritual advisors and self-help gurus that all we need to do when we want something is to focus on it intensely, to visualize it coming about, …
Thanks for the memories. What a lovely experience…
At the international Women’s Show at the Rock Financial Show Place again this year, my heart was warmed and my motivation to continue my work was reinforced. If I’d ever thought of …
Everyone seems to have an opinion about almost everything. Often when I ask how a person developed his or her opinion, the answer is almost always less certain than the opinion itself.
I am quite curious as to how people …
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Years ago when I needed to take a respite from a project or give myself some time alone I would get in my car and drive; driving was also a way to just get over it if I was …
Many years ago when I had my own radio program, I did a show with the title,” Sex guns and violence.” In the early eighties issues of gun control were as hot then as now, and violence and sex in …
Valentines day, a day to send flowers, cards with hearts all over them… give chocolates; and for some who can afford it, give diamonds and other glittery things.
Have you ever wondered why we have assigned certain days to …
What are you left with after the razzle dazzle and hustle bustle of the holiday seasons?
Good and not so good memories?
Within this blog I am offereing you ways of how to take the best with you, always ,and …
I wish you a wonderfully satisfying holiday season and a healthy prosperous and fulfilling 2010 and beyond.
And to make it an extra successful and gratifying year for you , I’m going to give you ten tips on how keep …
The old saying if you don’t use it you lose it applies to extra sensory perceptions too.
As a parapsychologist with a great deal of experience researching, investigating and experimenting all facets of normal psychic processes and the paranormal, I…
Chapter two of meaningful reminders:
The Reasons subconscious brings us certain thoughts and feelings.
Last week I left you with the “Why?” question. If you are still wondering why, let me explain some of the reasons. For there are …
Transformation, moment by moment ….
During a session with a client this week, he reported “…the powerful transformational impact of Mind Mastery on my life.”
What is so interesting about this is not that it’s unusual for me to hear …
A Blog : a web log of an individual’s thoughts, experiences, opinions and ideas etc. I am told it is a sort of journaling: A way of sharing, a way of gathering people together in front of a computer screen …